Be Careful What You Wish For
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on May 13, 2013
When I was pregnant I always prayed that my babies would be healthy, and have ten fingers and toes. I had so many miscarriages after my son was born that I never thought I would have another baby. When I was pregnant with Missy, I […]
I’m Not Scared Anymore
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Apr 21, 2013
Last night I told Missy why I am so happy. I told her why everything is OK and why I am not scared of Alzheimer’s anymore. One of my good friends died a few weeks ago, they wouldn’t let me go see her. The nursing […]
Old Age Comes So Quickly
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Mar 26, 2013
Old age comes so quickly. One day you are working, having children, cleaning house and then you wake up one morning and poof – you are old, have Alzheimer’s and have to have someone do everything for you. I sometimes think, “Oh I wish I […]
Will I Remember It? | Alzheimer’s in the First Person | Barbara Taylor Vaughan and Melissa Vaughan
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Jun 7, 2012
This post is a compilation of writing about different days by Barbara and Melissa of their experiences watching each other navigate their intertwined lives. Side-by-side, they demonstrate great love, courage and the challenge of living with Multiple Sclerosis and Alzheimer’s as the diseases progress, both […]
I Want | Alzheimer’s in the First Person | Barbara Taylor Vaughan
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Jun 4, 2012
I want to run away, I want to get into a car and drive away. Not tell anyone where I’m going. I want to drive until I get too tired to drive any longer..then check into a hotel and sleep all day…order room service and […]
Surprises | Alzheimer’s in the First Person | Melissa Vaughan
By Melissa Vaughan | Published on May 31, 2012
My mother has been writing me little notes, simple little notes, because she can not write very well anymore. She hides them everywhere, hoping I will find them. I think she began doing it, hoping that years from now I will find the notes tucked […]
Need is all Around You | Alzheimer’s in the First Person | Barbara Taylor Vaughan
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Apr 14, 2012
Missy took me to the doctor today, they did all kinds of tests, and I have to go back next week for one more. They found out that I am having seizures. Oh boy, if it isn’t one thing its something else. I feel fine […]
What it Takes From Us | Alzheimer’s in the First Person | Barbara Taylor Vaughan
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Mar 27, 2012
I have been a little confused today. I talked to another friend of mine who also was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s the same time as me. She is on medications, I am not. We discussed this terrible disease and what it is taking from us. I […]
My Old Hands | Alzheimer’s in the First Person | Barbara Taylor Vaughan
By Barbara Taylor Vaughan | Published on Mar 21, 2012
I love to have my old hands massaged. Missy was giving me a bath this morning. She always massages wonderful smelling lotion on me after my bath. On days that she feels ok, she massages my hands for a long time with the lotion. It […]